This January 1st was the first
time I have celebrated New Year’s outside the United States - away from
confetti, streamers, Times Square broadcasts, Dick Clark, and Auld Lang
Syne. Personally, it was a little
underwhelming. But that was my own
fault.
New Year is one of the biggest
celebrations in Japan. It is a time for
family, rest, travel, and new beginnings.
Very different from my American celebrations. This year I spent the holiday between both
worlds. I was traveling in Tokyo with
watashi no ryoshin, so I missed the champagne soaked gaijin revelry in
Dotenbori, but I also shied away from crashing traditional Japanese
celebrations at the larger shrines in Tokyo. Not only did I feel it would be irreverent,
but I was also uninterested in dealing with the epic crowds.
Instead I was in bed early, as
happens more New Year’s Eves than not.
Dad was snoring, not so softly, nearby, and between episodes of anime I
thought about my New Year’s guidelines.
I call them guidelines because
resolutions seems so rigid. Also because
I hear the word in Geoffrey Rush's Captain Barbosa voice -
This year, however, I feel
confident I can follow my guidelines. As
I lay in the rented apartment in Tokyo, trying to ignore the snoring, I thought
about what I truly wanted to accomplish by living in Japan one more year (as
compared to moving back in March). What
would haunt me if I didn't do it? What
was superfluous fluff I would never accomplish?
What goals could I set to become a better person? I had already accomplished one of my perennial
guidelines - lose weight - just by moving here, so what would I set out for
myself for 2015? Well, here it is. Short and sweet.
-Learn Japanese
-Write more - especially on my blog
-Cook more Japanese food
And, most important
-Take every opportunity to travel and do Japanese things
Learning Japanese aside, I am
doing a pretty impressive job of fulfilling these. I am excited to spend this year abroad, doing
all I can to better myself.
While I may have been asleep at
midnight, I did make it to Kiyomizu Kannando in Ueno Park on January 1st with Okasan
and Otosan where this interesting guy gave me my fortune for the new year.
Here's what it said -
In the valley nightingales are singing, and under the edge of eaves plum blossoms are beginning to open.
Hard time has gone. You are becoming happier and happier like flowers beginning to bloom. Try everything with confidence.
Happy belated New Year from
Japan. I hope you will all have a happy
and prosperous 2015. Even if you can't keep
all of your resolutions, I hope you are able to achieve the ones that will make
you a happier person. Ganbatte and
akemashite omedetou gozaimasu.
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